Posts Tagged "connecting with children"

From a Language of Criticism to one of Compassion and Connection

I was raised by loving parents. Of course they weren’t perfect, but I just can’t blame my problems on them. They did well and now as a parent I actually strive to be like them in most aspects. But I grew up in a broader culture of: “Want to be a good person? Be hard on yourself.” So I had a lot to unlearn and learn,…

Connecting with Children in Need of Mourning

I was experiencing mixed emotions in anticipation of the day both my children stopped believing in Sinterklaas. On the one hand, I didn’t want the joy, the excitement, the “magic” to end for them. On the other hand, I was looking forward to the day I could have far more honest conversations with them, experience less pressure concerning filling their shoes AND to give them something…